All I ever wanted .... .

All I ever wanted in my life was 'Love'. Pure, Unconditional, Un-selfish, No conditions to it, Shudh, Satwik, Shashwat, Without any attached strings to it, Given, Free flowing, Love, but I could never feel it from anywhere, Ever. Everywhere I looked everything was attached with something, nothing free, this so that can be, why? I never understood fully.
But I have understood another thing, how things work around, or at least how it seems to me. Wht ever u need to get, u get, that is if u wont be given this u will go away, so u Get it, Got it.
What u dont Get, u Take, by Force or by Paying(kind/cash). Paying mostly Works, but sometimes Force is the only option left, also force gives Quick and Immediate Results.
But the problem with 'Love' you know is, it cannot be Taken, it has to be Given.
Force can never be exerted on something which cannot be taken, or which has to be received, the giver has to be ready & able to give, and give willingly. Force can get u virtually anything, if you can force them right, or you force the right. But this sometimes is not true, when the Fear is not there, it renders force useless, it can be said aptly about such a situation as a perfect example where 'An Unstoppable force meets an immovable Object'.
Force works, because of the underlying intrinsic fear, of which the people are yet unaware.
People somehow are not yet aware of the power 'fear' can wield over them, but it is very relishing when you see someone under the influence of fear, they become completely different from the person they are, they do exactly they are told, without questioning and completely surrender to every order given.
Money on the other hand, can influence some Affection from anyone/everyone, since it is the one thing that  u need to have, to do virtually anything in this world. This affection some also call love, has nothing to do with love in reality or it even comes any close, coz the giver will immediately or ultimately stop giving, if the affection is lost or diminished. And it can happen in a lot of ways, and possibilities are will happen, since the affection bought by money can easily be won by someone else with more money to buy more affection, or if the previous buyer is not able to afford the flow/upkeep of the affection.
Force was never my prefered way to act, so Money is the only way left for me it seems now.
When i hear 'U reap, what u sow', I am bewildered, since I never sowed any hatred for me, I always tried to keep everyone around, and wanted them to love me, but they never did. They all were busy trying to reap and sow for themselves, they never understood, or it even can be said for some people, never had any idea of what they are doing.

Maybe I'm just thinking all this, or maybe, I don't deserve 'being Loved' / 'Love' altogether.
Whatever be the case, but all i ever wanted was .... .

Hey YOU....listen

it wasnt me who destroyed it, it was u, u not only destroyed it, but trampled it, ruined it, maligned it, crushed it.

u destroyed it in a way it could not ever be recovered or recreated or reformed in any way possible.

u killed it, u did not just shoot it, u were not happy with tht much, so u took a knife and stabbed it, u were still not happy, so u kicked it, threw it around and played with it, u then hacked it to pieces and even this wasnt enough for u, so u finally put some fuel on it to consume itself in its own fire and burned it to ashes.

well Phoenix's are born out of ashes, they rise from their own ash to be reborn as new.
it would take birth again, by rising from the ashes, and then would collect the ashes and carry it to u, to deposit and settle. 

* Why you should become an Entrepreneur? *

"How many Push ups can you do?"
10? 20? 50?

'If I put a gun on your head, how many? '
Here is what you would do - First, you'd do 20 pushups. Then, you would rest for a minute. Again, you would do another ten. You wait for another minute. Then, again another ten. And this goes on.
This is how entrepreneurs work.

Motivation?
Once you become an entrepreneur, you are your own boss. You keep the gun on your own head. You make big commitments to yourself, and the people around you. You keep making the wrong decisions, then realize that to prove to the world that you did not make a mistake, you stretch yourself.
You work hard to make sure that the commitments you made publicly do not land you in an embarrassing situation.
Like Ratan Tata said "I do not believe in making the Correct decisions, I decide, then I make it right." Who needs motivation to work hard if most of the time you are working hard to save your own face?

Once you do this a few times, you realize that if you keep stretching yourself, keep demanding from yourself more than you can easily achieve, you become more. You feel the power inside you that you never knew existed. You realize that you can do anything - you only have to decide and believe you can do it.

What you get:
Profits become a by-product. Money, power and fame become by-products. The real fruits you enjoy are the journey itself
and the satisfaction of knowing you are growing every day - growing into something bigger and better - and that is what our soul wants - to grow.

Fear:
The biggest fear people have is that if they become entrepreneurs, they will spoil their career.
I never saw an entrepreneur who failed, tried getting a job, and did worse than an average employee. Whenever a company goes down, the employees go down, the only people who never lose money are the ones who started it - they exit just before.
You can then get a job too. I have met and talked with thousands of professionals in Kolkata and seen too many such cases. There are too many examples to justify very clearly that most ex-entrepreneurs get hired directly at top positions by companies.

Uh-oh:
If you don't try to become an entrepreneur, here is something to consider. The average salary in TCS (India's #1 Software company) is Rs. 5,29,307. After taxes, the monthly salary is like 40k pm. An average Taxi driver in Kolkata earns about 30k pm. And he does not need to spend on branded clothes, car loans etc. To be happy, men need to grow professionally. Women may get happy by having a great family, kids, love etc. When it comes to men, I know, we need professional growth or we go right into depression. Yes, you can grow in TCS, however, do you think that all the 2.5 Lakh employees of TCS will be promoted to Directors in the next few years?

By becoming an entrepreneur, you bring competition, lower prices, increase quality, employ people, thereby, you spread happiness. Go, do it. You just have about 20,000/- days to live.

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$ How to Make More Money $

How to make more money.

1. There are people who make Rs.5000/- in a month.

For corporate trainings, some companies pay upto Rs.5000 an hour.
There are doctors who charge 5 lakh for a 1 hour operation.
An american singer named Adele charges more than 5 crore to sing for an hour.
Question: How do you explain this difference?
Answer: You don't get paid for time, you get paid for the Value you give in return.

2. The Govt. teaches us to demand what we deserve. Hamari Mangey poori Karo. Our Rights...
This is wrong. Nobody gets rich by demanding.
If you get Rs.10,000 a month, and you form a group, demand, sit on strike, you can't make Rs.50,000. You can demand only small increase, you cannot multiply. To multiply your income, start performing better than anybody else. You get rich by becoming the best in what you do, showing results and giving an outstanding performance.

Spend more effort in Improving your Value than the effort you spend in your Job to make money.

3. Make it a habit to always give much more than what is expected from you.
If you want to keep stepping up the corporate ladder, keep getting promotions, here is the most important tip - In whatever you do, whenever you do, put in more effort than is expected, show better results than is expected. Work harder and do it in a pleasing state of mind, do it smiling and love what you do. This will make you unstoppable.

4. Whenever you get a job offer, people usually ask - What will I get? This is bad.
Focus on what you are becoming, not what you are getting. The only way to earn may times is to increase your own value. If the current job is paying good, but your value is not increasing, it is a bad investment.

5. Bad times will Always come, and so will good times.
It is morning now, and soon it will be night. You cannot stop it, at least on this earth. It is summer now and winter will come. Undoubtedly. If you are happy now, bad times will come. If you are sad now, good times will also definitely come. This is life and you cannot change it, this has been so ever since man was born.
What you can and need to change is yourself. Here is what to do in good times - Keep thinking about bad times when you are in good times, save money for the bad times, work harder for the bad times, because for sure, they will come.
When in bad times, just keep thinking of the good times and prepare to make the most of it as soon as it comes.

6. Get yourself into action.
You have to make your powerful mind to obey your commands. Make everything important "A Must Do NOW", instead of a "I should do this soon".

Today is Sunday. Get up, Get some of the things you know you should do done now, and see how satisfied you will feel when you go back to sleep at night today.

कुछ ख्वाब होते हैं (Kuch Khwab Hote Hain)

कुछ ख्वाब होते हैं (Kuch Khwab Hote Hain)

घरौंदे जैसे बचपन के ख्वाब
एक टूटा तो नया बना लेते हैं 
कुछ, ताज़ा लम्हों की रेत से बना के
वक्त की नदी के किनारे यूँ ही छोड़ आते हैं


कुछ ख्वाब हमारे साथ बड़े होते हैं
कुछ हमारे birthday पे cake की तरह
हर साल कटते जाते हैं
और कुछ cake पे रखी मोमबत्तियों की तरह
हम खुद ही बुझा देते हैं


कुछ ख्वाब हम बनाते हैं
और कुछ ख्वाब हमे बनाते हैं
कुछ जिस्म पे एक निशान बन के रह जाते हैं


पर कुछ ख्वाब बड़े ढीठ होते हैं


ऐसा ही एक ख्वाब है ये
इस ख्वाब की उम्र बड़ी लम्बी है


ये बिन पूछे पनपता है
बाहर आने को मचलता है
शमा की तरह जलता है
पर हकीकत की हवा से डरता है


बाहर आ के बुझ न जाये
जब तक अन्दर है झूठ है पर जिंदा है
बाहर की भगदड़ में किसी सच
से कुचलने की आशंका है


ये ख्वाब मरेगा तो नहीं पर जाने कब निकलेगा


इस ख्वाब की उम्र बड़ी लम्बी है 
ये ख्वाब मेरे कब्र तक जायेगा
और पस-ए-मर्ग शायद, कब्र पे
एक पौधा बन के निकलेगा

क्या 'हम' तालिबान से कम हैं?

क्या 'हम' तालिबान से कम हैं?

 

कल फिर एक औरत को नंगा करके गांव में घुमाया गया। सजा के तौर पर। अपराध? कौन पूछता है! क्या फर्क पड़ता है! इतना कम है क्या कि वह औरत है। उसे नंगा किया जा सकता है। और इसकी सजा तो बड़ी होगी!

वहां भीड़ जमा होगी। किसी ने पूछा होगा, क्या सज़ा दें? कहीं से आवाज आई होगी, इनके कपड़े फाड़ डालो। वाह...सबके मन की बात कह दी। हां...हां फाड़ डालो। एक ढोल भी मंगाओ। नंगी औरतों के पीछे-पीछे अपनी मर्दानगी का ढिंढोरा पीटने के काम आएगा। सज़ा भी दी जाएगी और सबको बता भी दिया जाएगा कि हम कितने बड़े मर्द हैं।

' हम '... वही हैं, जो तालिबान को जी भरकर कोसते हैं। वे लड़कियों के स्कूल जलाते हैं, हम उन्हें नामर्द कहते हैं। वे कोड़े बरसाते हैं, हम उन्हें ज़ालिम कहते हैं। वे टीचर्स को भी पर्दों में रखते हैं, हम उन्हें जंगली कहते हैं। 'हम', जो हमारी संस्कृति और इज़्ज़त की रक्षा के लिए कुछ भी कर गुजरने को तैयार रहते हैं।

'हम'... जो अपनी बेटियों के मुंह से प्यार नाम का शब्द बर्दाश्त नहीं कर सकते। यह सुनते ही उबल उठते हैं कि जाट की लड़की दलित के लड़के के साथ भाग गई। उन्हें ढूंढते हैं, पेड़ों से बांधते हैं और जला डालते हैं... ताकि संस्कृति बची रहे। इस काम में लड़की का परिवार पूरी मदद करता है, क्योंकि उसके लिए इज़्ज़त बेटी से बड़ी नहीं। उसके बाद लड़के के परिवार को गांव से निकाल देते हैं।

'हम'... जो भन्ना उठते हैं, जब लड़कियों को छोटे-छोटे कपड़ों में पब और डिस्को जाते देखते हैं। फौरन एक सेना बनाते हैं... वीरों की सेना। सेना के वीर लड़कियों की जमकर पिटाई करते हैं और उनके कपड़े फाड़ डालते हैं। जिन्हें संस्कृति की परवाह नहीं, उनकी इज़्ज़त को तार-तार किया ही जाना चाहिए। उसके बाद हम ईश्वर की जय बोलकर सबको अपनी वीरता की कहानियां सुनाते हैं।

'हम'... जो इस बात पर कभी हैरान नहीं होते कि आज भी देश में लड़के और लड़कियों के अलग-अलग स्कूल-कॉलेज हैं। जहां लड़के-लड़की साथ पढ़ते हैं, वहां भी दोनों अलग-अलग पंक्तियों में बैठते हैं। क्यों? संस्कृति का सवाल है। दोनों साथ रहेंगे तो जाने क्या कर बैठेंगे।
‘हम'... जो रेप के लिए लड़की को ही कुसूरवार ठहराते हैं क्योंकि उसने तंग और भड़काऊ कपड़े पहने थे।

'हम'... जो अपनी गर्लफ्रेंड्स का mms बनाने और उसे सबको दिखाने में गौरव का अनुभव करते हैं और हर mms का पूरा लुत्फ लेते हैं।

'हम'... यह सब करने के बाद बड़ी शान से टीवी के सामने बैठकर तालिबान की हरकतों को 'घिनौना न्याय' बताकर कोसते हैं और अपनी संस्कृति को दुनिया में सबसे महान मानकर खुश होते हैं।

क्या 'हम' तालिबान से कम हैं?